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INTERVIEW SKILLS| Tell me something about yourself? What to do??

I know it vexes you. I know it creeps me out.
I know this question will be asked in every interview I go to, and yet my answer changes.
I know every interviewer will start with something like this and yet the question (or is it a request/command?) Tell me something about yourself, gets me nervous.

Oddly enough, I should be the best person to talk about myself.
I mean its about me and yet I stumble, not knowing if what I am about to say is what they want to hear.
Should I tell the truth or say something that sounds great and professional?

I am honest, hardworking and sincere. How many others said the same thing?
What should I do to handle the most asked question in interviews?
How should I answer, 'Tell me something about yourself"?

Here's my simple simple strategy:

This answer to question should do 3 things:
1. Showcase your communication skills
2. Showcase your individual talents and uniqueness
3. Lets you control the interview

How? Here's how:

1. Showcase your communication skills
Most interviewers want to know where you are on the communication parameters. This question is more like an ice breaker.
letting you speak for a minute or so, displays that.

Here's what you need to do:
> Write the answer down.
> Read it, learn it, emote it and then share it with people.
> Once it sounds natural and not practiced, get a phone and record the whole thing. It should last a little over a minute.
When you review the video, look for emphasis, body language, smile quotient.
> Improve > record > Review> Improve

2. Showcase your individual talents and uniqueness
This is also the time for the interviewer to scan through your resume.
Most of the them are reading and listening at the same time.
That means they are neither doing justice to the reading nor to the listening.

Shock them.
Thats right. Say something that grabs attention.

" I collected 10 Lacs for the old and needy"
" I was only four years old when I played for the cricket team"
" I have acted in over 100 plays in school & college"

Make them look up from the resume.
If you can do that, you have a fighting chance!

3. Lets you control the interview
Most interviewers get bored with all the same questions and answers.
They are more than happy to take a new road if provided.

Your answer to this question will generally generate a new question.
You can control the next question!
That's right.

For e.g.

YOU: "I am a hospitality student, currently on the threshold of joining an industry I am passionate about. Infact I was crazy enough to walk into Taj Palace and ask the Duty Manager if he could spend ten minutes telling me what I can expect from a life of hoteliering"

INTERVIEWER: "Really. What did he say?"

YOU:"Oh, he was very encouraging. Told me not to look at only the glamour part, but not to forget that we ensure people are safe and comfortable. He told me all the fascinating and interesting people he had me over the years"

You see? Lead the interviewer.
Take Charge!!
The Coach!

p.s. Leave your answer to "Tell me something about yourself" in Comments and I will tell you how you can improve it!!

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13 comments:

Niti said...

hello sir, great article. you must have solved the problems of many people, because we usually get this question in all the interviews. what i speak on this is-
gudmorning sir, my name is niti jain. I am 22 yrs old. I have completed my graduation in the year of 2006 in B.Com(p)from delhi university. My hobbies are listening hindi songs, net surfing & reading fashion magazines. we are five in my family, my mother & father both are working, my elder sister is doing MCA form IP University & my youger sister is doing BBA form IP University again. Presently I am working with A real estate company as a customer care executive. Thank You.

Anonymous said...

Good Morning Sir,
thanks for your help. this is the only question which always deide whether a candidate is in the game or nt.your this help will help lots of aspiring candidates.

My ans of this question is.........
hello gud mrg ma'aam / sir .
i'm pari born in kolkatta n broughtup in surat. i 'm a commerce graduate n with that i've done diploma in aviation n hospitality from frankfinn institute of airhostess training. i'm a very gud painter. i've participated in state level painting compitition. i've also participated misss gujarart beauty contest n was shortlisted in final ten. i like learning different languages i know eng., hindi, gujarati, urdu n basic bengali n punjabi n want to learn more.my hobbies includes painting n listening to musicn learning new things.

Abelasha said...

Dear All,

I want to thank u all for all the effort & support you render us through this programme. It was of great help to my professional career & also hope the same from everyone reading this... Great Going!!!!

My answer to the Question is

"Gud morning Sir, Am Abelasha Prasad, completed my graduation in Biotechnology with Madras Christian College & Diploma in Aviation & hospitality Manangement with Frankfinn Institute of Airhostess. Having 2 years of exp in Customer Service, 1 year exp in Admin. Currently working With IndiGo Airlines for the past 10 months. My hobbies would be listening to Music, Stitching, variety of Paintings

Anonymous said...

I am Sharath young and energetic person of 30 years, have bee associated with the industry for 8 yaers and during these yaers have opened 02 restaurant and 02 bars with most satisfying experience has been of opening a sunken bar inbside a swiming pool and started it as a new venue for revenue generationh.
it has been my pleasure to bring my hiobbies in the culture of the organization were I have played important role by participating and heading the team in games likje Football, Volley Ball, tabletennis and Cricket which are also my hobbies.
I have been currently associated with a large luxuiry change o Hotel in my Current Position.

Thank You

Eclat Hospitality said...

For Sharath...

First of all, my compliments on your accomplishments.

I would add the following:
> Your early years or education
> The companies/brands you worked with
> The revenue (additional) should be in numbers (get their attention!!)
> How many people do you manage
> What are your aspirations? (I see myself.....)

Hope this helps.

Take Charge!

Eclat Hospitality said...

For Abelasha,

Thank you for your kind words.

Here are my inputs...

> Generally an intro to yourself is meant to get you talking for a minute or so... yours seems a little less.
> I wouldnt spend so much time on your bio tech graduation. I dont think it is that important for a job in hospitality/services. maybe you could mention about AHA first and then mention that you are a graduate in bio-tech.
having said that, please be ready for questions like 'Why did you choose this feild, after Bio-tech?'
> Talk about your work exp a little more
> I like your interests. something different..so that is great!

Cheers!

Eclat Hospitality said...

Dear pari,

Fantastic stuff!

All that the things that I have been saying for so so long are here..

> your interests are different
> you have shown a passion and have achieved a level of success in it
> For this industry personality matters and with you being a finalist in a beauty contest I am sure it helps
> languages are great. My only suggestion there, please see if you can add some foreign languages to your repertoire.

Here are some more suggestions:
> What is your goal/aspirations.. I mean why did you do this course..talk about that.

All the best!

Eclat Hospitality said...

For niti,

Thank you for your kind words. you have been a regular reader, so thank you for that too!

Here are my suggestions..
> Talk less about your family, and more about yourself. generally it is enough to mention your family. you dont need to mention what your siblings are pursuing academically.

> If I was the interviewer I would like to know about what aspirations you have and what is it that you want to do in the future...so talk about that.

> It think I said this to you earlier, but again, I love your interests...go fashionably yet professionally dressed to the interview!

Cheers!

Anonymous said...

tell me about yourself...

my answer

a very pleasent morning everyone. i m ankit arora from dehi. eduacationally i m a management graduate sutdent. i m a fresher and inexperienced with the professional world bt if given a chance i can really prove to be a useful and dynamic candidate in the spice jet family. about ma strengths i m a confident and energytic person which is the main ingrdient of this job....plz reply how is it and anything else need to mention

Anonymous said...

Good Afternoon Sir,
Your article is indeed very helpful I just could not make something up for this "tell me something about your self" question it is going to be very helpful to me and every other reader.

My ans. to the question would be

Good Afternoon Sir/Madam

I am Ajay R a fresher from management background i am inexperienced in the industry but if given a chance i will prove myself to be a catalyst in the overall development of the company. My hobbies are listening to music the genres are nothing specific but i listen to whatever i like, i play cricket whenever i get time, am also trying to develop a reading habit. My aspirations are to be successful in this field and to grow along with the company and i absolutely love my mothers mutton stew.

Anonymous said...

I am Saumya Gupta from Kanpur, currently a management graduate student. I am a fresher & do not possess any industrial experience but if given a chance I will try my best to be a good corporate employee at professional level.If I talk about my positives, I am a young confident & friendly girl who tries to take the life positively most of the times & a quick learner. As for as my negatives are concerned I am not at dedication of work rather i prefer to do all the work by myself. My interest area includes listening to music, organizing events, reading fiction novels & meeting & interacting with new people.
please do reply how is it??

Bedi said...

@anon

- 'I will try my best' suggested change 'I will be'.
- 'As for as' suggested change 'As far as'.
- 'I am not at dedication of work' do you mean 'i do not delegate'?
- regarding interests, pls read http://www.myeclatcoach.com/2007/11/resume-skills-hobbies-interests.html

michael terence fudot said...

and there's another thing about answering this question. the way you construct your dialog should be in an organize manner.

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